In other news, scarlatti has correctly identified one of my key areas of focus in bedroom activity -- and has proved very good at ... well, she's proved very good. Her focus doesn't quite match/mesh with this. I hope to get to be as good for her as she seems to be for me -- but there's some learning ahead of me. Watch this space.
For those not interested in details but who want the executive summary -- things seem to be going rather well.