Please answer as if the poll was referring to your gender of choice. You have to choose. What are the features of your ideal boyfriend?
The single most enticing, squeezable butt you've ever laid your hands on, combined with a collection of crippling neuroses which prevent him forming relationships at all promptly.
A serene, well-balanced personality totally at ease with his past and no difficulty forming a relationship, combined with a completely uninspiring and dull butt which does nothing for you.